God reminds us He is with us.  And what I have learned by allowing God to cook, and not trying to do it myself is that He can far exceed my grasp. Example, during a t time when people who look like me are being oppressed and made to feel undervalued, He sent us the most amazing kiss.  On Super Bowl Sunday where a game that is watched by millions were welcome by a national anthem by Jon Batiste, the African American national anthem by Ledisi and a half time show by Kendrick Lamar. And the Eagles won. And the racist president had to sit and watch his team lose. God has the best sense of humor. While you are enduring, God will send you moments. Make sure your receive them.